THE FAMILY

What has happened to doing things together as a family, it is great being individual, but not to the point where you think you can do everything yourself, because there are times when we need others to help us, this is where the family comes in. Somewhere we have lost the relationship of working together, but we need to get it back in order to progress. At the moment we are thinking like hurt children, and because our thoughts govern our actions, we tend to either 'bite', or run away, when being confronted in any way.


This has to stop, because we cannot communicate on this level, and in order to do this we have to go back to the beginning. Remember those famous words of wisdom that has been passed from generation to generation "DO UNTO OTHERS, AS YOU WOULD HAVE THEM, DO UNTO YOU", this indeed holds the key to a happy rewarding life.


All this has to start in the home, because this is where the child learns. We need to start sharing and discussing any problems we have, instead of keeping them to ourselves, because often we only see it from our point of view, which, as well as being selfish, is deluded, so it is not the reality of the problem we are seeing. However, if we think about the other people involved and looked at it from there point of view as well, we would certainly understand and see a lot more.